I was joking about the punching... violence has no place in the scene... I was at a Nightmare party 4 years ago called Hard By Nature... one of my sober parties... and this guy I knew bumped into another guy accidentally while dancing... and that other guy took a hissyfit and was about to start a major fight.. until 4 or 5 of us stepped in just to make the other guy back off.. and after 2-3 minutes of badmouthing.. he did with no punches thrown.
PS - The Friendship Crew don't look down on anyone. That's why they are the "Friendship Crew".